What I’ve learned in 10 years of blogging

What I’ve learned in 10 years of blogging

A few weeks ago, I had this realization that I have been writing on this blog for a long time. I’m talking about before I discovered Facebook kind of long. Instagram wasn’t invented kind of long. One of my children wasn’t born kind of long.

I looked at my archives and found out I had overlooked my own 10-year blogging anniversary. Apparently, time flies when you are having fun!

During the last decade of sharing my life here on this blog, so many things have happened. People sometimes ask me why I even want to write about my life in this way. While I’ve had my moments of asking myself that same question, I also love to look back and see how much life has changed. I’m so thankful that I took the time to record our stories, my thoughts and my ideas in this way.

I love that some of my readers have been with me since the beginning and still read my blog!

I read all the time about what I should be doing to have a successful blog. I should develop a niche. I need to write about one particular topic and stay hyper focused to attract an audience. I have learned through the years that just isn’t for me. I love writing about the real stuff that happens in our life, and it’s crazy how those topics have changed dramatically the last 10 years.

For example, some of the topics covered here have included:

Our decision to home school and then our decision to stop home schooling

The story of how my husband and I started dating

The surprise announcement that I was pregnant at the age of 40 and my struggles with “advanced maternal age

Lots of interesting anecdotes about different types of shoes

My obsession with the TV show, LOST

My quest to become an organized person and my many organization projects

And my recent health journey and effort to eat real food

I thought about writing about the top five things I’ve learned after 10 years of blogging. But I realized that it all really boils down to just one thing.

You can’t worry about what other people think.

The hard thing about blogging for someone who is a perfectionist (like me) is that it’s so easy to overanalyze things. You can check your stats to see how many people read a blog post. You can fixate on your Facebook or Instagram likes and you can worry about how many people follow you by e-mail or through Bloglovin’. You can write what you perceive as an amazing blog post and then the reality hits that it is getting zero traffic.

If I followed all of the blogging rules, I would write more posts with five tips to do this or five tips to do that. But the thing is, I really blog for me. I love chronicling our lives here so I can look back at these memories later. I love the good feeling I get when someone tells me she was inspired, motivated or helped by something I wrote. I love connecting with people, and I get overly excited when I write something that others can relate to.

One of the biggest changes to my blog during the past 10 years is that I really don’t write that much about being a mom anymore. Once your kids get to a certain age, you really can’t infringe upon their privacy by exposing the details of what happens within a family. It’s kind of crazy that just when parenting reaches its most difficult stage, you also have to stop talking about what’s going on.

Because of this, I’ve been thinking about changing the name of my blog. But everydayMOM has become a part of who I am, so I’m not sure if I can bring myself to do it!

Whether you have been reading for the past 10 years or whether you are brand new here, I just wanted to say, “Thank you” for reading! I really do appreciate having you along on this journey.


In honor of my 10 years of blogging, I would love to hear from you! Leave me a comment and let me know how long you have been reading my blog and how you found out about it. Thanks in advance!



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I’m mooooooooving!

I’m mooooooooving!

I like change. I really do.

I get bored easily. I like new adventures. I love a challenge. I like a freshly-painted room, a new city to explore, the excitement of learning something new.

What I have realized, though, is that I’m not crazy about transition.

I have a hard time saying good-bye to The Old. I worry that even though The New might offer more possibilities, I will miss all the good parts about The Old. Sometimes change can be full of frustration and headaches as I learn to do something a new way.

Those are the things that have been on my mind the past few months as I’ve contemplated moving my blog. I’ve wanted to move my blog to WordPress for a while now, but, believe it or not, it’s hard to think about saying good-bye to the place I’ve called my home on the web for the last five years.

Will people come see me at my new space? Will they like it? Will some of the new, better features make up for a few things that I can’t take with me? I really worry that my old blog will miss me. I feel so bad leaving it all alone.

After much thought, work, messing around and a few counseling sessions, I’m really going to do it. I’m moving my blog.

But before I give you my new blog address, I just want to ease your mind by letting you know about a few of the things that will remain the same on everydaymom:

1. I will continue to publish the same pointless, random and even boring content that you have grown to know and love.

2. My posts will remain sporadic. Sometimes, I might post something every day. Other times, you will have to wait months for a new blog post.

3. I will continue to write many of my blog posts in a southern accent. You can read them in your mind in whatever accent you normally use.

What’s NEW on the new blog?

1. It’s really bright. Hopefully, if you don’t like the new, brighter colors, they will at least distract you from noticing other things you don’t like.

2. It combines my blog with my daily photo blog. Now, it’s easier to find everything in one place.

3. It includes commentLuv. I really luv this feature on other blogs. If you aren’t familiar with it, just leave me a comment, and you’ll see how it works.

4. There’s a bunch of other stuff that I love about moving to WordPress, but I’m sure you’re dying to just get over there and check it out.

Here’s the new address: www.everydaymomlife.com. (Didn’t see that one coming, did ya?) (I still have a few more things to do on the new site, so I’ll keep posting both places for a bit until I get it all done.)

Check it out and then leave me a comment to let me know you stopped by. Even if you’ve never, ever left a comment before, it’s super simple to do with WordPress. (One of the many things I love about the new blog.) You will make me so happy  if you take a second to say hello.

Oh, and PS… What about you? Do you like change? Are you good with starting something new? Leaving the old behind?

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