*This is part 2 of my post on Success.*
I tend to be an all-or-nothing person. And this quality can be both good and bad.
If I make the decision to do something, I want to give it my all. I want to really invest the time and energy that is necessary to make it successful. I get bored with mediocrity.
The downside is that I might be doing something at a level that is perfectly acceptable. But since it doesn’t meet my standard, I don’t want to do it at all. (I say the word standard with a lot of sarcasm because sometimes my standard can be ridiculous!)
This is a trait that I have really been working on during the past year. I am trying to be more content with where I am in life, even if I am not feeling the “thrill” of success.
I have heard so many times in my life of women who “wanted it all”. A great marriage. Perfect children. A fulfilling career. A beautiful home. And absolutely no fine lines or gray hairs from the stress of rushing from one thing to the next to achieve this idealistic existence.
But I know from experience that it’s not possible to have it all. If I am going to be successful in one area, then I must choose other areas of my life that will have to give. I only have the time and energy to do a good job at a few things at one time.
On the other hand, I can be average, mediocre or downright OK at more things in my life. And sometimes average is good. Especially if it allows me to keep my sanity. In fact, average can be better than letting something really important slide because I am trying so hard to be successful in another area.
You might think this the end of my stream of consciousness on the topic of success. But no, there’s more.
While you’re waiting, tell me what’s on your mind. Are you feeling like you are trying too hard to be good at everything? Are you happy with average? Or are you longing for more success?